MISS” Understanding

I remembered a situation which I was put into because of my pops(dad)….

I felt very sorry for 2 guys who suffered because of me literally…

It started this way…..

It’s a cool morning…I was leaving back to my college I Chennai that day after finishing my semester holidays….

My pops came along with me to drop me off as it’s my 2^nd year of my engineering…(cause he thinks I can’t travel alone and innocent….which I’m actually not :P)

That day we started from home in Guntur (AP) to Chennai (TN)….As we don’t get the direct train on that particular day we are supposed to travel to a nearby place Tenali and have to board the train….

We reached Tenali Junction railway station by 5.30 am….and were waiting for the train to come….and the wildest part is that we don’t have any reservation and have to board into local compartment or have to bribe TC for seats in reservation compartment….Somehow we managed to enter into the train which is over crowded…and headed towards the reservation compartment….

My fate is so bad that we could hardly find a seat in reservation compartment….

We found 2 seats empty in that compartment and my pops assured me that he would manage if at all anyone come for the same seats…

There comes the problem now (actually its different in a different way…will explain later)…2guys came asking that those seats were allotted to them by the TC…

Poor guys…my pops talked to them saying that TC allotted those seats for us….but they requested that they got to miss the earlier train….and they somehow managed TC and got the seats….Actually the truth is my pops never had talked to the TC….

And the TC already passed the compartment….

See the conversation was this way between my pops and one of the guy from them…..

Pop: See kids, the TC gave me these seats ma…Even “ladies” are here…How can you think that we would vacate the seats….?More over how can you ask a girl to vacate the seat?(pointing me)

Guy-1:No uncle, why can’t you get the point…? We got to miss the train and we requested the TC and got these two seats..

Pls uncle do vacate these seats…we were too tired…regarding this issue…

Pop: Till where you are travelling babu(local way of addressing a young guy by elders)? Are you travelling till Chennai? Where do you study?

Guy-2: We got to travel till Chennai uncle…and we are studying in SRM University in Chennai….

Pop: Oh I see…You better ask that TC again…

Guy-1 and Guy-2 bit their ears for a while cursing my pops and gave a weird look at me and Guy-2 left for finding that TC…in the mean while my pop settled next to me and had a nice breakfast that he bought in the station and fell asleep….

That’s it…

I got to say you something…my pops generally if fall asleep it’s hard for anyone to wake him up….note this point…

Then he (Guy-2) came with a dis appointed look on his face…All this while I was observing the Guy 1 and quietly read the irking feeling on his face caused by my pops…huh…poor he…

I continuously stared those two guys who continued to stand there all along the journey…

Guy 1 is cursing Guy 2 for letting my pops take away their seats…

I don’t know how badly they misunderstood me….

He he he he he he…they might have thought that I was trying to impress them…Too weird…

Inspite of this feeling that they would misunderstand me I was continuously staring them coz I can at least apologize them for my pops insane behavior…..

Guy 2 observed me continuously staring them and murmured it to Guy 1…

You know what this Guy 1 was never bothered and spewed me off…

I really tried hard to say sorry to the them but it remained in vain…

All the journey of 6 hours my pops happily slept with no interruptions and those poor guys continued to stand, me staring them (mainly Guy 1 ;) coz he looks more smart and handsome than the other and also wiped me off with his ignorance…that’s what fascinated me more :P) all along the journey…huh…:/….

Even after reaching my college I tried to reach them through my vast friend’s circle….But…phew…L…no use….coz I barely know their names or other details like dept., year…etc., except that they boarded the train from Vijayawada and they study in SRM, Chennai…..

It end that way….if at all possible…I would really ask for apologies from them instead of my pops…

And also make them clear from their misunderstandings about me staring them…if at all they had any…befor I “MISS”ed them…..huh….

“”Hey…!GUYs 1 & 2, if at all you come to see this post…I ‘m really very sorry about that day…and about my dad…. L””

“After all  we humans are here to make mistakes and then to resolve them by saying SORRY… ;)”

Life story

When I read "My Secret Wish List" by 'Preeti Shenoy' I really felt so good the way Diksha led her life finally taking good decisions....

But I found a real story exactly same as this story...but I wish the girl who got married a few days back doesn't  have a same ending as such in the novel...

Diksha, a high school girl hardly having 16 yrs, was caught with her boyfriend kissing in the late night at some science fare...which made her parents punish her in such a way by getting her married of at the age of 19 to an elderly idiot, who is around 10 yrs elder than her...

She'll get married to him thinking him to be a good company for her and also to gain back the trust of her parents on her.....She never thought she would become just a servent for her husband to cook food when he's hungry, take care of her 9 yr old son and also be a pleasure for her husband in bed room....
She could never dare to think about her own life, her career and never dared to raise her voice at her husband......even her 9 yr old son noticed her suffering..which never caught the eye of her husband...

But this left her with a heavy pain crept deep her heart....

She wrote her Secret Wish List at her cousin's home one day....that made her follow her heart again....

She did what all she wished.....she also found her boyfriend again, did many other things she wished to do as per the secret wish list she made....

And finally divorsed her heartless, cold and obnoxious Husband and married of her Boyfriend....and lived happily ever after...along with her son....

Now I'm recalling all this story as I found a Life story which is almost same to this story...

My friend Madhu(22)'s cousin, Sumi...She's 19 yrs old....
We met her when she came to join polytechnic...2 yrs back....
She's from a remote area of Tamil Nadu....
She's good looking and very active girl....

But the only thing she did was, talking to a guy closely....This seemed suspicious to her parents who wanted to get her married off as soon as she completes her course....

She came to know that her marriage was fixed just 15 days before her marriage.....She've never talked to the groom she's going to live with fo the rest of her life.....

Out of curiosity,we all attended her marriage...
I was really ashtanished to find the groom very stout and seems far aged than her...the thing is he's 29 when Sumi is just 19.....

I found Sumi smiling all through the marriage and other times while the Groom never gave a minimal formality smile to all...not even for photos and videos....

He looked so stern and serious....
(Its mostly looked like a child marriage...for me...)

Sumi talked more jovially...

Its so unfair to her parents to simply get rid of her or punish her in this way.....Don't they have faith on their own daughter...Can't they trust her....

I wish her story shoul not end in such a way thats ended in the novel....
I wish her Husband be friendly and loving to her.....

I really  cross my fingers for this....

How India is still this conservative in some parts of the world....Don't the parents love their daughters??? How do the parents think that their daughters are burden for them???
How come its fine if a guy does the same...and having many girl friends...or flirting with many is not facing any such restrictions.???
Don't the girl have any rights to choose the person she have to live with for the rest of her life???
Why there comes a difference in treating a city side girl with a village side girl???
Is it really such a sin girls nd guys bing friends???

Do you think India is really developing????

I really want to know all your opinion on this matter....!!!

Money separates gud frienz rite??

This is what a friend of mine asked me a little back….

This may be like this…when a friend asks you for money when he’s in need we do promise them…

But sometimes we may fail to keep our promise…It may be our situation….If really the friend of you understands it’s not a big deal…. You can explain him….

And if they haven’t responded to your messages or calls doesn’t mean that they are not talking with you for not helping out with money…

It also doesn’t mean that really money is what separated….

May be the person is busy with some real stuffs….

Its just a matter of understanding…..

Just know it guyz… Truely money can never part friends…FRIENDSHIP is more stonger and healthy than that bloody money…

 Just have a faith on your friendship....It lasts for ever.....

Thats what I believe....

A friend 's Artistic Antics....stole my heart....

Art has its own forms...own styles and own language....I find painting...drawing and sketching so fascinating....I love to enjoy any sort of these....Here are some paintings and sketches which stole my heart.....

Taking from a Van Gogh's saying....."I dream my painting and then I paint my dream"....let it be a in a flow.....

It is a kind of plunge which dragged me to write a post on them....

I would love to describe each and every painting or sketching I insert here....

Let's start with this cute giraffe sketching that not only adds cuteness to the giraffe but also to the owner of this sketch.....

Penelope Cruz-a Spanish Actress for many films like Pirates of Caribbean : On stranger tides.....

I do accept, the artist was not that great earlier....but still he did not keep his interest down...here is another one..which is not that great...but has its own importance...named as 'A desi atmosphere...'

Here we have a neat painting of a Seashore....I love sea shores.....its so peaceful to watch the rise and fall of the waves which clearly gives an example of a human life...telling us..there will be many ups and downs in our lives...but we have to take thes easy and move on in our life which result in a happy ending.....as a wave touching the shore so happily.....

A ship wreck is easily portrayed here as simple....

I know this is stupid...but still...I want all this to be in this post to make every one know that even great brains will go stupid some times.....I don't know how and what to tell about this painting here..... ;) :P

Its a Butterfly...I guess its trying to spread colours all over.....

Its a Dragon that is fuming with fires....dragon is also taken into legends...which is in the myths of many cultures....

There....here is a wonderful painting of a scenery which is the 1st acrylic painting...of the artist...the way of painting...the strokes given were so good....

He says its a Foam Burst but it seems to be a heavy wave hitting against rock and producing the foam...which finally satisfies the name given as foam burst....

Here is another beautiful scenery...

Here is a painting that shows some dance form....might be Salsa.....which is a popular social dance...

The artist shows his gratitude to his father on Father's day through this painting that made me exotic....

Here is a wonderful sketching that explains FORGIVENESS...ofcourse the artist explained the forgiveness in a funny way...."FORGIVENESS"......out of paints..:(...so took a pencil..:P "

A sketch of Aishwarya rai bachan from a debut movie "Raavan"....

A cute sketch of a girl with a simple smile makes a lively expression...

There might be some time which is lonely in every person's life...later filled by some company....I hope this Mr.Lonely too get a company soon.....

A young girl waiting for her man to come and "EXPRESS" his feelings for her....other wise she will be left abandoned.....

This sketch has some connection with the earlier....it seems a male hand...holding a flower.........

may be 'W A I T I N G' for the girl of his life......to give the flower to her....who know it may be the artist himself waiting for his girl...??!!!(shrugs)...!!!

Birds are the best example for the freedom....which sometimes lack in us......

It is so up t my fancy to see a portrait of a Vampire.....after all the fever that was given to the young generation due to the series of "Twilight" which shows an eternal love between vampires and human.....

Kaileena from Prince of Persia...

Here's a picture of a woman smoking....stating "smoking is injurious to health..."

A lively art....it's a friend of the artist....almost got exact image of the person.....

Its 'Andala Rakshasi' which implies 'Beautiful ghost'....but the way you presented it is simply superb....

We all are in debt to our nation.....so this is a best way he chose to show his debt to his nation...

Purple haze - all around......it's a song written and recorded by Jimi Hendrix....and also a kind of drug taken from marijuana....here we can see Jimi Hendrix in a haze of purple colour....

Here is an Abstract painting.....In the artist's words - "it is a kind of painting where we don't depict exactly..in true form...and is also categorized as Symbolism..."

I partly understood this painting...which seems to have lord Shiva...when I posed a Question to explain it...the artist said "it's lord Shiva when he opened his 3rd eye".....

This is a real MASTER PIECE of this great painter....I don't understand all of a a sudden how he took a swing in his paintings.....Hats off for this wonderful painting.....She 's such a beautiful woman.....I loved the eyes of the painting...which have some twinkle in them.....so lively....

Its a "hello honey bunny" moment that made the painter to wish all his friends a very Happy Valentine's Day through this pic.....

This girl really has a naughty look in her eye...."Konte choopu tho"(Kangal irandal"....means Nauhty look....) and also a warm smile...

There's another painting which really meant the title it got...."Subtle bliss"...a happiness that is not noticeable....

May be his memories at home made him really paint this..."home alone"

A middle aged man sucking in the cigar he got in an extra ordinary way which made him "Dhooma putra"....

The innocent smile on Meera bai's face is elegant....that she's waiting for her Lord Krishna....

Here 'The Stallions'.....

Here is a rough portrait that depicts to be MJ....

Seriously it's a million d$ll$r smile......The way he dragged the attention to service his best for the needy children using this wonderful painting....It really moved me....

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This painting shows his respect to women...and wishes a Happy Women's day to all the women...by painting Kalpana Chawala....who's the first INDIAN woman in space....

Here comes an extra ordinary painting....that really left me clue less whether this friend of mine is really a human or some other extra ordinary creature...from the deep of my heart I think this picture is out standing...I bow you.....

It impinges me to write about the artist of all these antics I've made a blog post out of them....here......Ananth Ram....though we were child hood friends...if I come to the exact fact that I'm nowhere around his friends...we were just classmates..he's a very good student...and always acquires 1st place in our class....There's a reason for that....I'm not a geek like him...and an average student in my school days..I thought my drawings, sketches and paintings I made were so good than any others....but I'm glad that his works and the way he improved so well is extra-ordinary.I presumed myself that my works were so good in the contrast he's so out of my league even in this......I envy you "Ananth Ram"... ;) :P

He even gave a description of all his ARTs as WaY oF LiFe....This makes me understand that there's something in these works he did that made him and also many feel lively.....with life in them....it's you who gave those a life....

Here is a sweet surprise I would like to give you...though I'm not as great as you...But I tried my level best to show you some respect for all your works....

Hope you'll like....I was in a rush and more over your pics are not that clear..... I apologize....for a bad presentation......I wish you a very all the best with the works you'll be doing further....

Madhuri Banerjee's lively writings....

It so intruding to write about how the book I've just done with, "Losing My virginity and Other Dumb Ideas" by Madhuri Banerjee...

Yes, I read that book...In some parts of India we still find some deceit to talk about some feelings and stuffs like sex...

Even I used to feel bad when it comes to me...I never wanted to discuss any such things with any....but after reading that book I felt to rejig the content of it...I read many books of fiction, love, romance.....

I really loved the way Madhuri Banerjee expressed all Kaveri had gone through...

I'll keep it in a gist....here it goes in the flow...

Kaveri was turning 30 and is a virgin all these years without any proper dates all these years....so she decides to lose her virginity atleast....instead of searching for her soul-mate....right man.....and her Love of her life to come and plead on his feet to her...

She discusses her feeling of getting De-virginalising to her close friend Aditi who's into film industry as asst. director.....

They try in all the ways to get the mission accomplished....mission - De-Virginalise.....

And Kaveri gets busy with her work as an interpreter for many embassies...
Once she would come to travel to Goa where she finds a guy like a Greek god....Arjun who turns finally to b her Love of life.....she'll get obsessed with him....and she's so much into him....and finally finds to know that  he's married....but was into a dark phase of his marriage life.....

She couldn't leave him so just goes on to be with him.....As he works in Mumbai where Kaveri lives too....They'll move in together...And their fling starts to take a pounding race over....and longs for months....

She never wants to be a person's mistress....so she'll ponder him now - and -then about getting married....

But his wife takes the toil of him as she gets pregnant and he needed to be around her...and finally Kaveri gets out of this struggling relation ship after all the pain she faced.....as she don't ant to be a baby's step mother or a mistress.....of a man who's some one's husband....

Ten she slowly gets hold of her self and enter into some reality show where she finds Karan...who's younger than her...but she don't want to get into another relation ship...but feels that "to get over a man we need another man" as her friend Aditi said.....and moves out of the show....

And then she goes with many sorts of jobs like guiding people in making their visits to India by guiding them and making friends....In this journey she finds Aaron...who's an Anglo-Indian....they'll make love but she doesn't have any feelings after all what Arjun did to her....Aaron leaves after his vacation and things goes normal....

Aditi 's marriage and after all Kaveri keeps herself busy into something though she get the memories of Arjun....just by cutting him from her life and mind.....

She'll be called for some intern ship in the feild she loved the most-ART...in New York...

She'll leave to New York...there she'll explore the whole city and admires and researches on Art.....all the time....She's an addict to Caffine and could never leave that along with a Brownie....She's a food lover....

There after 6 months of the time she spent in New York she receives a mail from him....Arjun....asking to meet up as he's in New York...

They meet and he ask for apology for let her go and not responding responsible in their relation...She'll cut him off that it doesn't mind any more and tells that she moved on in her life.....But he takes his chance to ask her hand of for marriage and also tells that he doesn't want to leave Anisha his daughter....But Kaveri stands up to her own feet and refuses him softly and leaves....

She'll leave to Barcelona....there she'll find an old lady predictor who tells her that she'll find her true love in that city and get married to him....what's the viola is it's her birthday and she 's turning into 32....and she's leaving the city  night.the next evening..

She decides to treat herself and visits a restuarent where she finds Ray.....who proposes her on his knees infront of all the world...but she freaks by running away when he asks for her hand...by singing a romantic song and playing guitar...Btw he's a waiter at that restuarent.....

She realizes that she left him in embarrassment the last night and goes to the restuarent to see him but she'll find to know that he's working as a guide for tourists and as a driver for those tourist buses....

She'll go there to ask him to forgive her but the scene ends by resting her head on his shoulder....

I loved the way Madhuri put the romantic part into words....I've read many books.... in all those I can find that all the female writers fail to keep the sex and romance part into words....

Until I read this book I thought that only male writers are experts in writing all that romance part into words with a mixture of poetry...

But now I take aback my words....Madhuri you are a way out of league.....in that....


I here by want to share a picture of Madhuri Banerjee.....I loved this Book all the way....I not felt even a single line boring....

Every sentence in the book is so lovely and I was completely into the book as its so intresting from the very first page....It hardly took me 8 hours to complete the whole book of around 235 pages....

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